I would want to always see all notifications from my friends aspects (which I know personally), but not necessarily from my “dias” aspects (which contains “random” people whose postings I like).
I’d suggest that aspects can be given a priority in being listed in the stream:
If an aspect’s priority is higher than another one’s than the higher prioritized one’s notifications will be shown first. That way it’s guaranteed that I see the posts first which I have prioritised.
And we could also manage aspects visibility in the stream. For instance you may only want to be in contact with someone but you’re not especially interested in his/her posts, then you put him/her in a separate aspect that is configured not to merge the posts in the stream (you can still see what the people in this aspect say by clicking directly on the aspect).
Just now found out about aspects having options: https://puu.sh/rbTfo/9eef21b6ce.png
It’s super hidden.
So apparently options for aspects already exist. Just need to figure out how to make it more apparent and how to adjust it for more options.